What if...

So What if he doesn't want to be with you anymore and you really feel like you've fallen head over heels? It's really hard to to sometimes admit that the relationship is just not worth keeping. Deep down inside may even feel that this is a horrible relationship, but you also, feel as though maybe if you work hard at makeing it better than it will become more worthwhile. In my experience I came to realize that this ultimately is not true. If you have to work that hard to make something out of nothing then most likely thats what it is, "nothing". Sometimes we put ourselves in bad relationships or a.k.a. "settle" becuase we feel that this is all we deserve therefore, this is the only type (that through our minds) is what we can get. Sooo, mulipulating them is our main objective. We try to mold them onto what we want. This is very bad and almost deadly....