Sunday, June 6, 2010
Boredom
Just a small hint for the day: Don't let boredom play a factor in dating or talking to guy you know is no good for you. this one is really tricky to master and takes immediate practice.
Saturday, June 5, 2010
Excuses
Okay, here are a few pointers I have recently learned.
1) If he refuses or has made numerous excuses as to why he can't hang out with you during the day-Run!
2) If he tells you he doesn't want a relationship -- Run!
3)The famous phrase: "Let's see where things go..." Is code for , "Let's have a no strings attached booty call!"
We all go through times where we may over look certain things a guy says thinking out load (or even self consciously), "Maybe, if I treat him nice, and spoil him to death I can change his mind and we can be together." Yeah, right doesn't work. You can never change a guys mind. If he likes you he will do whatever it takes to make you happy. Even if he is the biggest busy body, he will manage to spend time with you. What the above points usually mean is that he is either in a relationship or is hoping to start one with someone else, like an ex or infamous "Baby mom's". Everyone seeks out a partner, that's how we were made. We are social beings and we all want that company and significant other. So If some says "I don't want a relationship." its a lie and I would not waste my time, especially since my goal is to eventually have a healthy relationship.
1) If he refuses or has made numerous excuses as to why he can't hang out with you during the day-Run!
2) If he tells you he doesn't want a relationship -- Run!
3)The famous phrase: "Let's see where things go..." Is code for , "Let's have a no strings attached booty call!"
We all go through times where we may over look certain things a guy says thinking out load (or even self consciously), "Maybe, if I treat him nice, and spoil him to death I can change his mind and we can be together." Yeah, right doesn't work. You can never change a guys mind. If he likes you he will do whatever it takes to make you happy. Even if he is the biggest busy body, he will manage to spend time with you. What the above points usually mean is that he is either in a relationship or is hoping to start one with someone else, like an ex or infamous "Baby mom's". Everyone seeks out a partner, that's how we were made. We are social beings and we all want that company and significant other. So If some says "I don't want a relationship." its a lie and I would not waste my time, especially since my goal is to eventually have a healthy relationship.
Liars
Well, okay i had to write about this because i go through this all the time while dating. The questions rush through my mind like a wild river on a raining day. Is he lying. ultimately as soon as this question pops into your mind; it means "yes"...well, "yes he is lying" . The vibes you feel while talking to guys are very important. I have at many times in my life gone against my own vibes and then I ended up ending relationships anyways. When it should have been over when the first bad vibe started.
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