OmG.. It's the worst feeling in the world of dating (and of course generally too) is to be surrounded by idiots and smoochers who just wanna take all your money; use you for what ever you have and then you either : A) have to get rid of them or B) they leave. Both of these senerios have happened to me and both of them suck. Especially if you actually cared for the person who was using you to the point of getting knocked up. The other senerio where you have to get rid of the guy is scary as hell because 5 times out of ten the idiot doesnt get the point. Then you have to get your father, brother, and/or the p.d. envolved, and yes it's that serious... i dont recommend anyone to Ever date someone who you have the "Slightest" doubt about. Reason being is that the doubt; which initailly starts out as a small thought in the back of you head, usually becomes the worst reallity ever and then explodes in your ] face, making you feel stupid and 100 percent resentful. I plan on using this blog to give advice on dating and spotting appropriate men-- and potentionally me start up more websites for dating advice for those who for whatever reason ; do not and cannot have bums in their lives... thank you for your time and I look forward too this...YAY!